Supporting you to talk about how you want to be cared for at the end of your life.
82% of Australians think it is important to talk to their family about how they would want to be cared for at the end of their life. Only 28% have done so.
You never know what the future holds. It is never too early to plan ahead. Talking now can help your family and friends in the future, and can make sure you get the kind of care that you want.
The Dying to Talk Discussion Starter will guide you through that discussion. It will help you prepare, so that you know what you want to say and it will provide you with tips about how to start talking.
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Palliative Care Australia thanks The Conversation Project and the Institute for Healthcare Improvement in Boston, MA, USA. Their Conversation Starter Kit is in many ways the inspiration for this resource.
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Any resource provided by PCA for the purpose of the ‘Dying to Talk Campaign’ is strictly informative and should not be considered as legal advice or legally binding. None of the resources or forms provided by PCA for the purpose of ‘Dying to Talk Campaign’ should be considered as a substitute for the prescribed or recommended ‘Advanced Care Plan’ forms of each State or Territory.
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For additional information relating to advance care planning, please speak to your health professional, visit the Advance Care Planning Australia website www.advancecareplanning.org.au or call the Advance care planning advisory service on 1300 208 582, 9am – 5pm (AEST) Monday to Friday.
What matters most to you?
What is it that you can’t live without?
Thinking about these questions can help you think about how you want to be cared for at the end of your life.
Open up your Discussion Starter. It can be downloaded at the bottom of this page. The questions in Activity 1 are there to help you reflect about who you are and what is important to you. This can help you prepare for talking about your preferences for care at the end of your life. Take some time to reflect on these questions before you talk to your family. It may help you feel comfortable about what you need to say.
Tip: If you are having trouble with the questions in Activity 1, try the extra reflection prompts at the back of the document.
Tip: If you are still struggling, here are some other activities that can help you reflect on what is important to you.
- Write down 10-20 sentences about yourself. Look over them and see what they say about you. You might even like to share this list with your family.
- List the three things that are most important to you in life. What are the things that you wouldn’t be happy living without?
Activity 2 in the Discussion Starter is all about having the discussion with your family or friend.
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Here are some suggestions to get you started:
“I have just filled out a questionnaire that I found online. It made me think about the things most important to me and how I would like to be treated if I got sick or was dying. Maybe you could do it too and we could compare answers”.
“I really hope that [insert person] received the care the way they wanted to when they were dying. I’ve been thinking about the kind of care I would want.”
“Now that you (or I) have been diagnosed with [insert condition], I want to make sure that we know each other’s wishes for care. Can we talk about this?”
Tip: Think about who you would want making decisions for you if you were not able to do that for yourself. Maybe start the discussion with this person. They may be in your family, or may be a close friend.
If you don’t feel like you have anyone to talk to, you can talk to your GP or health care worker. You can also write down your preferences so that people will know what kind of care you want. See Activity 4 of the Discussion Starter for more information.
You did it!
If you have reached this activity, you have probably had your first discussion with your family or friend about care at the end of your life.
How did it go? Do you feel like you were able to say everything you wanted to? Do you feel like they were willing to listen?
Think about what else you need to say, and who else you might like to talk to. You might want to make some notes in your Discussion Starter.
This first conversation is just the beginning. It gets easier every time.
You might change your mind about what you want at the end of your life. That is normal. If you do, you should let your family know.
As well as talking to your family and friends, there are other activities that you can do to plan ahead. Planning can reduce the stress for your family at that difficult time.
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Document your wishes
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An advance care plan is a document outlining your end-of-life health care goals and wishes.
The Australian Government has developed a My Health Record, which is a place to electronically store important health information about you. You can upload your advance care plan to your My Health Record. This will ensure it is available when it is needed. You can attach this document or you can attach a legally recognised plan. To find out more talk to your doctor or go to Print FENDI Blend High Waist Roma Cotton and Linen Skirt Jeans Leopard Pencil q44ptr.
Identify your decision maker
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Write down who you want making decisions for you.
Then make sure that others know your choice.
An Enduring Power of Attorney can legally identify a person as your chosen decision maker if you were no longer able to make decisions. This is particularly important where that person is not your legally recognised next of kin.
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Review your Will
Do you have a Will? Our survey found that over 50% of people don’t.
A Will is a legal document that communicates what you would like to have happen to your assets if you die. Not having a Will can create additional stress for your family.
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Consider organ and tissue donation
People who need an organ or tissue transplant are usually very sick or dying because an organ is failing. If you want to donate your organs when you die, you should register your decision. You should also make sure that your family know about your decision and about why it is important to you. To find out more, go to x fashion spell designers crewneck Buzz out sportswear Rickson print streetwear Army style big logo Us sweatshirt pullover 4AW58W17.
Social media planning
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Each social media platform (for example Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or Google) has its own rules about what to do with your account when you die. Palliative Care Australia has developed a guide to help you with this.
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You might think that preparing for your own funeral is a bit morbid. While it might be hard for you, it will be harder for your family when you die. If you can tell your family what you want, it might reduce arguments and stress at a time that will already be difficult for them.
Tip: If you are planning on taking out insurance, it pays to look carefully at what value you are getting. Other options might include pre-paying for your funeral or having a savings account set aside to cover the costs of your funeral.
Let a trusted person know where they can find things
If you have documents like an Advance Care Plan, a Will or life insurance policies, it is important your family can find them if you were not around. This may be a physical location or it may be on a computer.
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Discussion Starter Tips
- The tabs on these pages walk you through the steps in the Discussion Starter. Use these alongside your Discussion Starter document.
- Download and save your Discussion Starter.
- You can print your Discussion Starter and fill it in. You can also complete it electronically and save your answers. You can even email them to a friend if you want.
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